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PHOTOS BY JEN HART

Christmas is a very popular time for engagements.

Some couples have the engagement ring ready, however, many couples choose the rings together, before or after the question is asked.

One thing to think about: Will your wedding ring fit with your engagement ring?

Many couples design their own rings, this enables them to have the perfect design that suits their personality.

Mobeus understands the importance of purchasing your wedding rings. They specialise in creating bespoke wedding rings that last a lifetime

However, there isn’t just the rings to think about … Oh where to start! To help you, we’ve included an extract from Victoria J.Brown’s, The Wedding Planning Book for the Deviant Bride, to help you understand what you need to do over the next year or so! Good Luck.

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Your planner

As soon as possible

There are certain things you need to think about before you start booking and planning your wedding. Here are a few points to consider:

* Put together your guest list:

Some venues are restricted on numbers; some may have a minimum or maximum number of people.

* Take note of your budget:

Weddings can easily run away with themselves. Think about what is most important to you on your day and allocate sufficient funds to each part of your wedding.

* What type of wedding do you want?

Do you want a theme? Do you want a small or large wedding? Brainstorm: write down all the things that are important to you and work from this.

Once you have established the above points, book your venue as soon as possible. Remember, if you’re having a church wedding, check the church dates too. If you’re having a civil ceremony you can inform your local registrar twelve months before. Many venues are booked two years in advance, so book as soon as possible to avoid disappointment.

Once you have booked your venue, it’s best to book the following suppliers as many are in demand.

  • Think about sending out ‘save this date’ cards to your guests, they can then work their holidays around your wedding, if needed
  • Order wedding cake
  • Book photographer and videographer
  • Book florist
  • Book music; including what is needed for ceremony, reception and evening
  • Book transport
  • Buy wedding insurance
  • Book any other entertainment i.e. fireworks, magician etc.
  • Choose bridal party
  • Start thinking about your honeymoon
  • Start thinking about your dress and accessories

12-6 months

  • Order your wedding dress / outfit
  • Order bridesmaid dresses / outfits
  • Order stationery
  • Reserve accommodation for guests who are travelling
  • Book your honeymoon

4-5 months

  • Buy accessories, shoes, jewellery, tiara etc.
  • Purchase wedding rings
  • Choose favours
  • Choose gifts for wedding party
  • Purchase or hire groom and male attendant outfits

2-3 months

  • Send out invitations
  • Choose menus
  • Have make-up and hair trial
  • Buy throw-away cameras, guest book and any other bits you need i.e. balloons, candles, ribbon etc.
  • Choose readings, hymns etc.
  • Check with your doctor what injections are needed (if any) for your honeymoon

1 month

  • Final dress / outfit fitting
  • Think about your table plan
  • Start writing table names
  • Assign duties to bridal party
  • It’s a good idea to try and wear your shoes; you don’t want to be uncomfortable on the day. Remember, if you will be wearing your shoes with tights or stockings you need to wear them when trialling your shoes.
  • A quick phone call to your suppliers ensuring they are prepared

1 week – 1 day before

  • Have manicure, fake tan and any other beauty treatments. You may need a massage by this stage!
  • Pick-up your dress/outfit, bridesmaid dresses/outfits, groom and usher attire
  • Rehearse the ceremony
  • Pack for your honeymoon

Your wedding day

  • Relax and enjoy
  • Take in every moment, stop for a while and look around you
  • Breathe in your special day

Day after

It’s a good idea to get together with family and close friends for a small party, this will give you a chance to catch-up and discuss all the things you missed on the day. Believe it or not there will be plenty!

MOST IMPORTANTLY – ENJOY … THE PLANNING AND YOUR WEDDING DAY WILL GO BY SO QUICKLY XX

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WEDDING TIPS A TO Z BY VICTORIA BROWN FROM CALM WEDDINGS

PHOTOS BY JEN HART PHOTOGRAPHY

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A is for Accessories

Your accessories should complete your outfit, so think very carefully about your tiara, shoes, jewellery and any other embellishments you decide to add.

Calm Weddings offers a wide range of accessoriescalm weddings logo

B is for Beauty Regime

If you don’t have a beauty regime, you should really look at this at least 6 months before your wedding. Drink plenty of water and try to get plenty of sleep. Fresh, revitalised skin should be one of your wedding aims. Book an appointment with a beauty therapist/consultant to help establish what you need to do before your big day.

Calm Weddings also works with Temple Spa. Temple Spa allows you to take care of your skin in the comfort of your own home.

C is for Cake

Wedding cakes come in a variety of forms, shapes and sizes. Talk to a professional about what you would really like. Have a cake that represents both of you.

Cakes by Melia will work with you to create a bespoke design that will suit your personal style.cakes by Melia

D is for Dentist

Bride, grooms and their families spend some much time looking for the perfect dress or outfit and accessories, even hairstyles can be discussed for hours. However, what about that perfect smile? The smile that is going to be displayed on your photos for ever.

Identity Individual Dental Care, who were nominated for Best Preventative Practice, offer a wide range of treatments that will have your smile gleaming.Identity Individual Dental Care

E is for Eat

Eating is very important to keep up your energy levels, so even if you’re dieting, make sure you eat healthily and regularly. Plus, don’t forget to eat on the morning of your wedding, no matter how nauseous you may feel, you will feel worse as the day progresses with an empty stomach. Visit Victoria J. Brown’s blog, she has found a healthy diet: an alternative to caffeine, which is perfect for any bride, groom and their families.

F is for Fireworks

An excellent way to end the night but make sure your venue will allow them.

G is for Games

Games are a great way of keeping your guests and children entertained. There are games that can be placed outside such as, giant jenga, giant connect 4 or giant chess. Alternatively look at indoor games such as ping pong, cards or twister; these are bound to get your party into full swing!

H is for Hair

Book your hairdresser well in advance. Think about timings; how long will it take to travel to and from the hairdresser’s? How many people in the bridal party are having their hair styled? Show your hairdresser pictures of your dress as this will help them advise on the best style to suit your overall image for the day.

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I is for Ice Sculptures

Hire a professional company to make some fantastic ice figures and carvings; there are some fantastic sculptures that will have your guests amazed.

J is for Jewellery

Your jewellery is meant to enhance your dress, not outshine it. Have you thought about getting your jewellery designed to suit your dress?

Mobius Jewellery won bespoke Business of the Year for Hartlepool and will work with you to create the most stunning jewellery.mobeus

K is for Kiss

Your first kiss as husband and wife is usually in front of all your guests. It may sound silly but talk about that kiss; one of you doesn’t want to go in for a huge slobbering kiss, whilst the other expects a peck on the cheek. Could be embarrassing! Tell the vicar or registrar if you want them to say ‘you may kiss the …’ to appear in your vows as it doesn’t automatically happen.

L is for Laughter

Laughter can keep you young. Finding someone to laugh with is very important as life can have many stresses. Laughing together will keep you stronge, especially through any ups and downs. And make sure you laugh all the way through your day. If anything goes wrong, try not to worry, this is one day out of your life, so don’t dwell if you can’t change something, just enjoy it as it will soon be over.

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M is for Make-up

Scared you may look like Aunt Sally once you’ve done your own make-up? Hire a professional or at least talk to a make-up specialist about the type of make-up that would suit you.

Kate Pymm is an award winning professional make-up artist and hair stylist based in the North East of England. With over 8 Year’s experience within the Industry she and her team will happily travel to your preferred venue for your bridal preparation.kate pymm

N is for New

Traditionally it is said ‘…something new…’ signifies good luck and success in the bride’s new life. Many brides count their dress as their something new.

O is for Opinions

Many people will have an opinion when it comes to planning a wedding; mostly about how they did it or how they think you should do it. Listen carefully to what everyone says and pick out the bits that are useful to you

P is for Pageboy

Usually page boys are younger members of the family. Choose carefully; if they are too young they might become disinterested. Give them a task, perhaps carrying the rings on a cushion as this will not only keep them entertained, but will make them feel important.

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Q is for Quartet


Live music is very romantic at weddings. Quartets are perfect for weddings as they have a range of different instruments that could really set your wedding apart from other weddings.

R is for Rings

Your rings will be an item of jewellery that will remind you daily of your marriage. They are the one materialistic item that will still be there long after your wedding and honeymoon are finished. Do you want to look at your wedding ring in five years time and wish you had thought more about it? Your rings are something special to both of you, so choose carefully; they need to last a long time.

Mobius Jewellery specialise in creating bespoke wedding rings that last a lifetime.

S is for Stationery

Your invitations and other stationery requirements (name cards, order of services, menus, etc.) can come in all shapes and sizes. Look for something that follows your theme; if you feel creative then design and make your own stationery.

 T is for Toastmaster

Toastmaster is the person who calls for the bride and groom to enter the reception. They let everyone know when the speeches are happening, when the cake is to be cut and when the meal is finished. Usually your venue will provide a member of staff to be your toastmaster; typically the manager or a higher member of staff takes this role. However, it is possible to hire your own toastmaster.

U is for Ushers

Ushers are usually the bride and groom’s family and close friends. Choose wisely as ushers have certain responsibilities such as seating your guests, handing out order of services, helping where necessary etc.

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 V is for Veil

It used to be tradition for the bride to wear a veil over her face, however, usually brides today wear the veil attached to the back of their hair or don’t wear one at all. Make sure you choose a veil that suits your dress and hairstyle.

Calm Weddings have a wide range of veils.

W is for Walk

Anyone who is walking down the aisle should practice, over and over again. Especially if there are several of you walking down the aisle. You need to be in time with each other, as it could cause some of you to walk too fast or too slow. You don’t want your bridal party tripping over each other.

X is for Xylophone 

Xylophone could be an unusual alternative to a violinist, a harpist or a pianist; definitely different!

Y is for Yoga

A fantastic way of not only toning your body but yoga is a proven way of helping stress levels. Why not start? Not only will you be chilled out for your honeymoon, but you could be using your new-found flexibility wisely!

Z is for Zest

Keep your enthusiasm burning when organising your wedding. Having the zest to take it forward will make sure your day is full of fun and excitement, not only for the both of you but for your guests too. This means eating well, keeping fit and getting the average 8 hours sleep needed to function properly.

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